Enough is Enough
January 15, 2008 at 7:52 pm | In Eye on Beirut | Leave a CommentTags: Beirut, Lebanon
Earlier today, Qarantina a northern area of Beirut was the location of yet another explosion in Lebanon. Until now, three are reported dead and around 20 wounded. One of the targets was a US embassy car which can not be good news. Every Lebanese around the world is currently holding their heart in their hands as they try to get through the jammed phone lines to those they love. Especially since the area where the bomb happened was in an area where most people pass through atleast once during their day.
This situation is becoming ridiculous. Yes the Lebanese people have become accustomed to such occurences due to the civil war and have learned how to continue their lives normally without being affected by the stress of not knowing what will happen but I think we have crossed the line of one bomb too many. The once beautiful and envied life of the Lebanese has changed drastically from a passionate love to an emptiness that can’t be filled. Youth are being forced to look for work outside their country in the Gulf or the West in order to support their families who they leave behind while those who remain in Lebanon are living in such an enormous amount of stress that most of them are on anti-depressants and living a very routine unsociable life which is not at all typical to Lebanese culture.
How do we know that the problem is reaching a stage that may be irreversable? By measuring the hope left of the Lebanese people. Lebanese people worldwide will never be home unless they are in Lebanon. They wait for any holiday or even day off to hop on a plane and run home. If you ask any one of them how long they will be away from Lebanon, they will tell you one or two years or as soon as the situation gets a bit better. Well my dad, uncle, aunt, friend’s parents and so on said the same thing 30 years ago and they are still waiting and hoping. They keep sending money and buying lands and homes and listening to songs of Lebanon’s return. But after the drama of the last year, more and more Lebanese expats are letting go of this dream. That is all I can say. I am so saddened for Lebanon and I am constantly praying for stability, praying for my family’s safety, praying for nothing less than a miracle.
24 Shortcuts to a Happy Life
January 15, 2008 at 1:35 pm | In Cliff Notes | 1 CommentTags: Happy, Life, Tips
I must confess… I am an addict when it comes to magazines and almost any form of reading material. And when I like something, I will go to almost any length to keep it coming. That adds up to about 5 magazines and around 150 online newsletters per month. But don’t worry, I don’t read them all. I have somehow become the world’s greatest scanner and speed reader but I also have the world’s worst memory as a result of all this incoming info.
The upside to this is that I always come across a lot of fun and interesting pieces of info. Everytime I find something good to pass on, you will be able to find them in the “Cliff Notes” category with their reference for further reading.
Today I found “24 Shortcuts to a Happy Life” on Cosmpolitan.com. I personally loved them and found them very useful. To keep it brief, I posted 10 of my favorite tips below. The rest you can find on their link.
1. Don’t believe everything you think. When your inner critical voice starts heckling you about how your abs are flabby or making you feel like crap ’cause that guy so isn’t interested, assume the voice is wrong.
2. Copy the catwalk. Apparently, Leo isn’t the only reason Gisele’s smiling. According to a Skidmore College study, people who take bigger strides, swing their arms, and walk with their heads up (think: runway goddesses) feel happier than those who take short, shuffling steps. The reason could be because upright posture and extra movement get blood flowing more freely, which boosts your heart rate and your attitude.
3. Pad your time. Running late and rushing around like a total madwoman is like putting your nerves in a deep fryer. So instead of being terminally frazzled, give yourself a 10-minute buffer. Set your watch ahead or allow yourself more prep time when you have someplace you have to be.
4. Get engaged. Sorry, we’re not talking about the kind that comes with a diamond ring. We mean those times when you’re so totally absorbed in what you’re doing that you forget about watching the clock. Whether you’re thumbing through your latest issue of Cosmo or even fine-tuning a work project, you’re completely in the moment and experiencing what’s called flow, says David G. Myers, PhD, author of The Pursuit of Happiness. “When you become so unself-consciously immersed in an activity, you boost your sense of competence and well-being.”
5. Grin, even if you don’t feel like it. This is one time it’s okay to fake it. Just force yourself to smile when you need a lift. Research at Clark University found that students who were induced to smile actually felt happier. “Even just going through the motions can trigger feelings of joy,” says Myers.
6. Shorten your “I wish I’d…” list. Look, you can’t rewrite history, and harping on the past only makes the present seem bleak, so don’t dwell on what you could’ve or should’ve done differently (“I could’ve asked him for his number,” “I should’ve bought that damn sweater on sale”). Banish regret by refusing to second-guess yourself.
7. Listen to elevator music. No, we haven’t completely lost our minds. In the strange-but-true department, chill tunes can have the same calming effect on anxious patients as 5 milligrams of Valium, according to Atlanta anesthesiologist Fred Schwartz. One quick word of advice though: Use headphones — you might want to keep your Muzak appreciation under wraps.
8. Always have something to look forward to. Make dinner reservations three weeks in advance. Buy a pair of concert tickets for next month. When you preplan a fabulous future, you sweeten your outlook on life.
9. Create a ritual. Start every morning with your signature skim no-foam latte or set up a weekly mani–pedi. Life is totally random and unpredictable, but having something constant that you enjoy keeps you grounded and gives you a sense of well-being.
10. Don’t flake out. It’s okay to occasionally bail on plans — emergencies do crop up — but being a chronic canceler is guaranteed to send you on a guilt trip…and piss off your friends.
The Three Queen Ships Meet in NYC
January 15, 2008 at 9:05 am | In Around the World, Eye on the USA | Leave a CommentTags: Cruise, New York, Queen Elizabeth 2


I saw this article in the NY Times today “Three Seafaring Queens Spend a Day in New York” and I would have loved to be at this event. What an amazing experience it must have been to see three of the largest luxury ships in the world (Queen Victoria, Queen Mary 2, Queen Elizabeth 2 which are all apart of the Cunard Fleet) line up in front of the Statue of Liberty while fireworks lit up the New York Skyline. Breathtaking!
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